I believe that at least once in your life, you asked yourself the following question:
"What is the meaning of my life?"
The purpose.
The more I observe people, I see that they often ignore themselves in the sense of their true existence. They become deaf to their own purpose. In the end they don't do the things they love, things that can give their life a sense and happiness. People just do things they think they have to do. Without any passion and love. And their excuse is "I have to do that because that's realistic and logical.'' They accept what others say it's real. And so they live by other people beliefs and rules. They stop seeking their own truth and ignore the inner voice that's whispering to them. The outside world and other people opinions take over their lives. And the impact is mostly negative. They allow negativity to enter into all the pores of their life. That way the negativity becomes their reality.
People give up. Easily. They stop being a life seekers. They decide to go through life by taking the path of least resistance. Because the unknown path is more dangerous and risky. And all the fears live there. In unknown. And it's not easy to face fears and step into the unknown. It's not easy to stand alone and believe in things that other people don't see. It's a true challenge to be brave and believe you can create your own way. And so people give up on life, their dreams, true meaning and purpose ...
I know ... it's hard to believe in yourself and find yourself worth first, especially when no one else believes in you. It's not easy to fight for your dreams and try to live it. But that's the charm. The mystery of life. Its preciousness and diversity. We often forget about the beauty of life for some kind of reality. Often imposed reality. And in that whole story we forget to just be.
Let me tell you one thing. Everything you want is on the other side. On the other side of fear. And when you decide to deal with it - everything is possible. And the most beautiful thing is that, when you realize everything is possible, you begin to return to your inner self. The cause of your existence. When you understand this and step in that direction, then you will be able to live your full potential. And you will be happy. And isn't that what you're aiming for? Happiness. We all look for happiness in outside world, but the truth is, it lives inside us.
Try to realize that you can achieve everything that you imagine, and the only thing that keeps you from that life are your own thoughts and beliefs. Only one thought, one belief, divides you from the life you want to live. But the change is necessary. I'm not talking about the change in others or in the outside world. The change starts within you. Therefore, if you want to witness the beauty of life and its diversity, you have to change your beliefs that doesn't serve you anymore. The only person who blocks you - is you. That's why you don't live the life you want and love. And absolutely no one else is responsible for it, except you.
Couple of times I mentioned reconsideration. On daily basis. You have to question some things so you can try to figure out yourself and move in the right direction. Your emotions are your compass. It is up to you if you will follow them. That way you will come to your own source and find the purpose of life. In the end you will give your life a meaning. That will happen when you decide to match yourself with your inner self and truth. When you start believing in yourself.
They say most people die when they're 25 years old and are buried when they are 75. And you? Are you still alive? Do you enjoy this life? Do you work hard for your own dreams? Or are you practically with one foot in the grave? Perhaps these questions are a little bit abstract. So here's a couple of simple ones. Ask yourself and answer the following:
'' Am I born just to pay my bills and go to work that I hate? '' "Is this all that life can offer me?" "Is this all I can give to my life for myself?"
''Is this happiness?''
I know you can do more. But it doesn't matter what I know, what I think It's important that you know.
I have a wish...my wish is that you dare yourself. Just go ahead. Get the most out of each day. Remember every breath. Live. Experience. Love. Face your fears. Live your dream. Complete your full potential. Live the happiness. Live the moment. And finally, make sure you own every second that this world gave you... Those are my wishes for you. And what a wish knows what's impossible.
Your Life Coach Ursula