I recently read an interesting story so I decided to share it with you. Here it goes.
"One summer day, the woman came out on the porch and saw three bearded men sitting in her garden. She decided to invite them in the house because outside was very hot. "Thank you for your invite, but we never go into the same house together.", said one man. ''Why is that?'', she asked. "Allow me to introduce us ...", replied the other. "This is Success, this is Wealth and I am Love. Now go into your house and decide with your family members who would you like to host .''
The woman entered the house and explained her husband the situation. ''What an opportunity! We must host the Wealth. Let him enter and enrich our home.", said the husband. "Isn't it better to host Success? We will be successful in all fields of life.", she replied. "No, we have to host Love. That way our home will be filled with love every day.'', said the daughter.
Husband and wife decide to listen to their daughter. The woman came out of the house and said to the three bearded man. "We decided to host Love." One gentleman stood up and walked to the house. At that point, the other two followed him. "But we just called Love. Why are you two going after him?", she asked surprised by their behavior. "If you called Success or Wealth, the other two would be outside. But since you've called Love, wherever he goes, we'll go after him." , said one of the bearded men.
Today we often witness relationships of material or any other interest. Unfortunately, such relationships have an expiration date. That date is when people reach their goals or interest. This goal is mostly related to the ego and the least with sincere love. The consequences of this are short-term relationships. And then we often hear that love has an expiration date. But that's not love, because when the love is pure and honest it first comes from you. And you have an never-ending source of love within yourself. And it lasts until the end of your life. What has the expiration date is the goal and desire wrapped in the name of love. After fulfilling your wish and goal, you will set a new goal and the new desire. The chapter one of desire is completed. The goal is fulfilled. Now it's time for new one.
Let us not be fooled. Every relationship we have is full of various challenges. These challenges are mostly related to our illusion of perfect relationship and the idea of it, expectations and emotions we attach to. But that is the point. That way you can understand yourself and become aware of your behavior and what you want from certain relationship. That's how we learn the most about ourselves. If love is the foundation of the relationship, then we will be able to deal with such challenges more easily. And one who turns to honest and pure love will feel all the benefits of success and wealth. What is the secret then? The secret does not exist. Do not call love what she's not. The goal and interest is related to ego and not with love. Just take your heart as a guide and you will witness the miracles.
And in the end, think twice about who you will host in your home.
Your Life Coach Ursula